© Copyright 2020 Meredith Corporation. “I thought, if Sandra Bland is doing a YouTube video saying, ‘My beautiful kings and queens,’ let’s hear Sandra Bland,” Gladwell says. lost in my own head, Who wrkmonkey is after talking to strangers: really happy, confident, braver, more empathetic, less racist & judgmental, improved ability to listen and read body language, more aware of my surroundings, more trusting & maybe a little in love with humanity. There is various history coasting about the main STRANGER CHATROOM utilized on the web. You actually hear the contentious arrest of Sandra Bland by the side of the road in Texas. I'm open to suggestions of stuff we could do. I'd love to hear other people's experiences. A lot of people will like you for this, I am sure. Also, there's these guys that do cold approaches to strangers kind of like OP does and it's really awesome. The audiobook edition of Talking to Strangers was an instant #1 bestseller, and was one of the most pre-ordered audiobooks in history. And I'd love to hear how the experience goes for you. I also try stores, the mall, walking down the street. Thank you and absolutely I gotta give a shout out to the failures! I set goals. I'm so excited for you! OP you're awesome! Who wrkmonkey was before talking to strangers: shy, super serious, anxiety-ridden, terrified of people (I mean, what if they wanted to hurt me? Get 50% off this audiobook at the AudiobooksNow online audio book store and download or stream it right to your computer, smartphone or tablet. You actually hear the contentious arrest of Sandra Bland by the side of the road in Texas. The routine traffic stop that ends in tragedy. And they can build on each other! Court transcripts are brought to life with re-enactments. I talk to everybody. Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know About the People We Don't Know Audible Audiobook – Unabridged Malcolm Gladwell (Author, Narrator), Hachette Audio (Publisher) 4.5 out of 5 stars 5,887 ratings #1 Best Seller in Social History ), And sometimes I just get so cowed I can’t say anything. STRANGER CHAT – TALK TO STRANGERS [2] HISTORY OF CHATROOMS. I didn’t just talk to the hot members of the opposite sex, I talked to the grandmothers, the businessmen, the students, and within reasonable surroundings, the sketchier-looking people. And it's important to do it with a positive mindset, I can't imagine doing it any other way. I make eye contact, smile, and have open body language. Audiobook listeners will hear quotes from Bland’s inspirational YouTube videos, portions of Bland’s tense encounter with Brian Encinia, the arresting officer, and audio from Encinia’s deposition after Bland’s death. Another chapter looks at the infamous “enhanced interrogation” techniques used by U.S. intelligence agencies during the war on terror, and features interviews with a CIA interrogator. (Which to be fair, when the weather is good, it’s remarkable where I live.) In the audiobook version of Talking to Strangers, you'll hear the voices of people he interviewed—scientists, criminologists, military psychologists. With Emerald you can talk to strangers from around the world for free. My commute had 4 segments: (1) bus TO then transfer for (2) train TO, (3) train FROM then transfer for (4) bus FROM. Post about it on the new subreddit, http://www.reddit.com/r/talktostrangers/, Great piece. This is so important: eye contact and smiling are like conversations in and of themselves. In many cultures, striking up a conversation with a stranger … I take my seat, I find someone, run the sequence and off we go. Or that "conversation" I had about the weather but all the kid could do was nod or shake his head, he was so scared of me. Once I got going, I often found myself talking to extra people at bus stops, at the stores I travel to, etc. I may be a little tipsy, but this post is inspiring me. But small talk is ok because it’s the positive energy trades that matter. They look at you or have their bodies angled towards you. This subreddit is unmoderated. Those are the ones that make this “hobby” worth it. This meant training myself to really listen. ;)" (And yes, that was totally a boy.). Oh man, the number of times I’d manage to muster up a "H-hello" that people would pretend not to hear. When you use Omegle, we pick someone else at random and let you talk one-on-one. Like the podcast, the book examines past events from a new perspective, in an attempt to explain how and why those events have been misunderstood. Michael Brochstein/SOPA Images/LightRocket via Getty Images. Talking to Strangers by Malcolm Gladwell appears to be a contentious book: the readers and reviewers have either hated it or loved it, nothing in between. They'll hear me coming and look for me, so I'll catch their eye, smile, and if I feel up for it, I'll start talking. Entertainment Weekly is a registered trademark of Meredith Corporation All Rights Reserved. Or drive for that matter. This goal is challenging but broken up into smaller, doable goals. :) People who are open to talking to you make eye contact and smile back. “It just changes the emotional tenor of the book when you have this incredibly haunting piece of music attached to it,” the author says. There’s just no reason to read a book into a microphone and call it a day.”, Credit: The highly anticipated new book from Malcom Gladwell, host of the chart-topping podcast Revisionist History.. With original archival interviews and musical scoring, this enhanced audiobook edition of Talking to Strangers brings Gladwell’s renowned storytelling to life in his unparalleled narrating style.. I thought I was going to jump out of my skin; I thought he was going to attack me! My mentality going into this is that I’m sharing a secret joke between me and the stranger. Think of conversations as energy trades: you get what you give out. You learn what you can from these failures. For his sixth audiobook, the #1 New York Times audio best-seller Talking to Strangers, he drew on real-life audio–including archival footage and clips from his own interviews—to incorporate the production techniques of a podcast into the audiobook format. Sometimes this is enough to coax the stranger into initiating the conversation instead! Thank you for sharing your story. Particularly because of my injury, a lot of people, including the sketchy-looking ones, would wish me well or help me chase down a bus. My new skills are transferring into the rest of my life so my networking and friendship building is amping up. So enter the roulette chat now and see who's online! It's like a huge fear of mine. It's really as easy as that, you say what your honest opinion, and what whatever you wanted to do. ull) is a great way to meet new friends, even while practicing social distancing. Talking to Strangers is a classically Gladwellian intellectual adventure, a challenging and controversial excursion through history, psychology, and scandals taken straight from the news. In the audiobook version of Talking to Strangers, you’ll hear the voices of people he interviewed–scientists, criminologists, military psychologists. (Totally didn’t get her contact info!) Visit r/redditrequest to request it. It could honestly be as simple as going up to them and saying exactly what you think and what you want to do. “The minute I did my first season of Revisionist History, one of my first thoughts was, in my next book, I need to do the audiobook like the podcast,” the author tells EW. Damn, you just opened my eyes to some shit. The best omegle alternative. Woo! I found this even more insightful as I am now a stranger and my company doesn't seem to train their HR & managers to talking to strangers. Talking to strangers is definitely a critical challenge. Created Apr 24, 2013. Online. I "faked it until I made it." By Björn Nilsson; 4 December 2020. She helped me check my books out (because my hands are busy with my crutches)! or Log In. One of the book’s central chapters examines the events leading up to the death of Sandra Bland, a 28-year-old black woman who was found hanged in her jail cell after being arrested during a traffic stop in 2015. I made up this "character" that was "cheerful, confident, crippled and cute" as opposed to "shy, serious, scared, crippled and invisible." Starting a conversation can often be the easy part: you just say "hi!" When I get to the bus stop, there's usually someone already there so I'll start a conversation with them. I went to the library and had a great conversation with an assistant there the other day. It seamlessly marries audiobooks and podcasts, creating a completely new and real listening experience. Dedicated to cultivating the habit/hobby of talking to strangers: from the high powered CEO of your dream company, the hottie at the Starbucks, to the homeless guy down the street. “It’s way different when you can hear his voice,” Gladwell says. Thank you, and what you're saying is so true! What's your name?". Share on Google+. Pushkin Industries, Gladwell’s podcasting company (which produces Revisionist History), plans to produce similar projects in the future. I realize that other people don't look like me and most people probably don't have a broken ankle at the moment (I don't even know what's going to happen when I'm walking around again.) Anyway, the next day I sat somewhere else but got to watch him say hello to someone else and they talked on the bus for at least a week after that. Press J to jump to the feed. Sometimes I start a conversation and just think, surprise me! You actually hear the contentious arrest of Sandra Bland by the side of the road in Texas. Share on StumbleUpon . Or the boy who told me about how he wanted to get an MBA when he grew up. 5. In the audiobook version of Talking to Strangers, you'll hear the voices of people he interviewed--scientists, criminologists, military psychologists. Talking to everybody also helped me keep the hotties off the pedestal: I’m just talking to you like I talked to bus driver. But the resemblance goes deeper than that. Publisher: Hachette Book Group Edition: Unabridged. Malcolm Gladwell is the first to acknowledge that his new book, Talking to Strangers, bears the influence of his podcast Revisionist History. Especially, if that’s the social skill that scares you the most. Here's how I did it: I broke my ankle in March and couldn’t do any of the physical challenges I set for myself (more snowboarding, running a 5k sighhh). :(. ago. It's keeping it going that can be tricky. Whenever I take the bus, I'm going to talk to someone. Like a party every day. So, before starting a conversation, go for the option of ‘find strangers with common interest’. ;). Cheesy as it sounds, making a Habit of Talking to Strangers has changed my life. I've been experimenting and I'd love to hear ideas on what can trigger good conversations. This was my experience, it was really cool, so I shared it. I never really grasped that it was possible to have the "do what you want" mindset without being hammered (which of course has the drawback of usually making you want stupid things.) I pretended to just fall asleep so we didn't actually have a conversation, and I swear at some point he started laughing. If you give out positive energy and smiles, you will get positive energy and smiles back. This also means that it’s not that important what you say: it’s how you say it. It has been praised by Audible listeners as "a new era in audiobooks…and maybe in relating to others." Start! What if there is no public transportation where I live? With Emerald you meet strangers from around the world at the click of a button. :). :), It exists! It's more that there's more defined parameters for social interaction. :) There are so many of them and they happen to me everyday. (“Anyone out there who wants to do a cool one, hit me up,” Gladwell says.) Meet strangers face-to-face in our webcam area. Best place to talk to strangers. I'd love to build a community of people who are doing this/interested in doing this. Obvious example: you see a cute girl/guy and you want to talk to them. So when it came time to produce Talking to Strangers’ audiobook, Gladwell knew that the usual approach — having someone simply read the text of the book — wouldn’t suffice. I fail a lot. “It struck me as crazy that you would write this book and then you would just read it into a microphone, and that would be called an audiobook.”. Bot Free. I learned a lot from it :). I selected the audiobook version because the author usually reads his books, as he did in this one. This is another feature of this app. How do you approach a stranger? Heck yeah, join http://www.reddit.com/r/talktostrangers/! Agreeing to WireBlog in 1978, a University of Essex understudy named Roy Trubshaw made a STRANGER CHATROOM program on a PC that permitted people to join in a very dream based game from their home PCs. Meetup.com meetups, networking events, the office, etc. Members. And if you did talk to strangers, what would you even talk to them about???) Their kindness was amazing. That emotional impact is precisely what Gladwell hoped to achieve with this unique approach. You actually hear the contentious arrest of Sandra Bland by the side of the road in Texas. Your imagination is the limit really. You just convinced me to try and do this. (Even though I was a "cheerful, crippled, cute girl" who could hurt you about as much as a baby! Talk to them! Download or stream Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know about the People We Don't Know by Malcolm Gladwell. This goal is challenging but broken up into smaller, doable goals. Actually, one of my earliest lessons in talking to strangers is when some guy said hello to me on the bus months (a year?) http://www.reddit.com/r/talktostrangers/, A bit bare bones at the moment, but I'll start cooking a few things. As long as you're not trying to sell them anything/want something from them, they usually think you're really brave <-- that is to say, they think positively of you already! More conversations about this to come~. If they're unresponsive, mean, or negative in any way, they're probably not people you'd like to know anyways! It’s not actually a fake character so I wasn’t lying to anyone, just that it wasn’t my usual self. so it won't be the same. I really encourage everyone to challenge themselves and make Talking to Strangers a habit/hobby! “If she’s arguing with Brian Encinia, let’s hear them. Randomly talking to someone on the street you've never met is unacceptable aside from maybe a brief mention of the weather or the like. Completely anonymously. Once I got going, I often found myself talking to extra people at bus stops, at the stores I travel to, etc. Would people be interested in joining me in a subreddit dedicated to working on the habit/hobby of Talking to Strangers? It's not so much that we don't like talking to strangers completely. What do you say to get the conversation started? It generates lot of misunderstanding and quarrels with hierarchy with strangers from all origins, especially black ones. I get on the bus, and I always talk to the bus driver, same sequence: eye contact, smile, hello (and usually a thank you, because bus drivers are special). I found that as I talked to more people, I really became that "cheerful, confident, cute" character and it became easier for that to be my usual self as well. Talking to Strangers is a classically Gladwellian intellectual adventure, a challenging and controversial excursion through history, psychology, and scandals taken straight from the news. Once you hurdle over that fear, it’s really a ton of fun and you get to learn new things all the time. Court transcripts are brought to life with re-enactments. You better be able to measure up if you’re competing in that space. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, More posts from the socialskills community. Anyone wanting to only send messages, join this section. So I made it a goal to talk to 4 strangers per day, 1 per segment. Sometimes the conversations just don’t last long and don’t go further than babbling about the weather. Gladwell’s team even licensed “Hell You Talmbout,” Janelle Monáe’s 2015 protest song about police brutality and racial violence (which invokes Bland’s name, among many others), for use in the audiobook. ...Well, we all have our own personalities and ways of doing things. Anyone. Video Chat. I was scared to do it, but I was scared of snowboarding too and that turned out to be so much fun, I figured if I could fight through the fear, this could turn out to be just as awesome. so that I talk to way more than 4 strangers … That I shouldn’t wait too long after making eye contact to start talking because once the silence sets in, it’s not as easy to drive back out! It's so rare for strangers to just come up to you and talk that most people are blown away. I love the part where you mentioned all your failures to add to the realism. And if that’s the case, then we would be foolish not to give them something of high quality.”, He adds, “If you’re writing a book or writing an audiobook, you’re competing with podcasts, with talk radio, with all these other things. If you see someone you are interested in (doesn't necessarily mean attracted to) go up and talk to them! Shy people don't always do video calls, I don't but you probably aren't that shy that you are looking for video and voice calls with strangers. But, while talking to strangers, you have to be careful as well. So here I was stuck taking public transportation to work when I thought of challenging myself to Talk to Strangers. On and on. Talking To Strangers Audiobook | Malcolm Gladwell | Full Length Audio book | Best Selling Audiobook - Duration: 10:19:31. audio books master 7,721 views 10:19:31 I usually jump into it thinking, "I want to brighten his/her day!" Before using video, you'll need a mic & cam. this link is to an external site that may or may not meet accessibility guidelines. I got a great conversation going with, "sooo, going backpacking eh? help Reddit App Reddit coins Reddit premium Reddit gifts. Life would be so much more fun to be able to have that attitude within the confines of your day-to-day life. Spy Question Mode. :). Click the "I'm not a robot" box and get started. 616. I also learned how judgmental I was being. It's really something I need to try. And the author is fully aware of modern audiences’ consumption habits: “When I talk to a parent of teenagers, I hear over and over again about how that generation consumes stuff with their ears, not with their eyes. And these strangers surprise me in the best ways possible. They're as much a part of the experience as falling on your face is in snowboarding. Behind the scenes trailer for the audiobook of Malcolm Gladwell's Talking to Strangers. How do I meet strangers? You’ve traded good vibes and that’s a net positive from saying nothing at all. I'm sick of being afraid and thinking about it all the time. 10 funny mockumentaries to remind us about the absurdity of life, Family-friendly Halloween films for boos big and small, First look: Michael Sheen talks recording Philip Pullman’s Book of Dust trilogy, William Jackson Harper talks performing for audio with new Audible play. I also really like commenting on their situation. Talk to strangers 1-on-1 in the text-only area. Brought to you by Penguin. And then I realized that he wasn't going to hurt me and I didn't have anything to be afraid of. I think it's a great idea. It can be kinda rough to start with, but hang in there, it'll get awesome, I promise! A lot of people are asking questions as to how to actually approach a stranger. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts, http://thepiratebay.se/torrent/7354532/Simple_Pickup_-, http://thepiratebay.se/torrent/8260192/Simple_Pickup_Project_Go_Deluxe_[Week_1_-_31]. meet new people. Spot a person you don't know, that's a stranger. There’s a saying that everybody is an expert in something that I don’t know about: I made it my mission to learn a little something from everyone. Why would I describe it to you when I had the tape?”. You can watch small Youtube clips of them, or you could actually get the membership and get they're exclusive videos. Emerald is the most popular omegle alternative on the web. And they can build on each other! I learned a lot just from watching them. Offers may be subject to change without notice. Warms them right up, and the conversation's already started. After starting the project, I also picked up What Ever BODY is Saying for reinforcement. If the conversation dies or doesn’t begin at all, it’s not your fault, or the other person’s fault. Especially at the beginning. Share by Email. I would totally join a sub if you created it. So when they kinda veer away, it's sort of "awww, I didn't get to brighten their day BUT I also didn't hurt them in the process" so we're good to go! Randomly pair with someone, then start an anonymous conversation! Share on Reddit. Court transcripts are brought to life with re-enactments. For his sixth audiobook, the #1 New York Times audio best-seller Talking to Strangers, he drew on real-life audio–including archival footage and clips from his own interviews—to incorporate the production techniques of a podcast into the audiobook format. And to use this feature, you need to click on the ‘asking a question link’. I just go about my day and then turn to the person right next to me. In reading Talking to Strangers, one might notice its chapters are often constructed like episodes of Revisionist History: guided by Gladwell’s narration, punctuated by interviews and extended sound bites, and written with a more direct, intimate style than your typical work of nonfiction. With this option, you can find the best person with similar interests. No logs, No registration, No obligations. I can interact fine with people, but I've always been secretly scared of strangers in the sense that I don't know what the hell to do around them when I don't have a reason to talk to them. Silly me. Court transcripts are brought to life with re-enactments. I've gotten great mileage out of, "doing anything exciting today?" And yes, sometimes conversations get magical. I definitely wanna be a part of your new subreddit. The Talking to Strangers audiobook is essentially a super-sized podcast episode, with excerpts from Gladwell’s recorded interviews, archival audio, conversations re-created by actors, and even music. Moderators. Like the girl I met who started going on about anthropology. To help you stay safe, chats are anonymous unless you tell someone who you are (not suggested! Welcome aboard! or a variation. So, thanks for posting! I'm an absolutely huge fans of those guys but I just can't do it. The most important part about this is that you just do what you want. A place to share your favorite social skills tips, ask for advice, or offer encouragement to others on their social skills journey. They're all on the Pirate Bay so you could try it out if you want to try before you buy Search up, Project Go on piratebay or youtube. I had to learn it when I started freelancing remotely. No harm done. In the audiobook version of Talking to Strangers, you’ll hear the voices of people he interviewed - scientists, criminologists, military psychologists. ), and you can stop a chat at any time. Like I'll be walking to the bus stop and if someone is passing me, I'll make eye contact, flash them a smile, and maybe follow up with a "Good morning!" Tell people with your body language that you notice them, they are not invisible to you. Awards: OverDrive Listen audiobook. Edit: I'm actually really excited now to have a palpable 'goal' now, outside of like school and internships and all that. You’ll have so many conversations, fault stops mattering, failure stops mattering. Edit:here's weeks 1 though 5 http://thepiratebay.se/torrent/7354532/Simple_Pickup_-Project_GO(Week_1_-_5), and weeks 1 through 31 http://thepiratebay.se/torrent/8260192/Simple_Pickup_Project_Go_Deluxe_[Week_1_-_31]. 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